Four Things happen when we have a
Thankful Heart
There is an
unmistakable power always at work when we live with a thankful heart. I’m sure
more can be added to this list, but I offer you four to consider.
#1 — A Thankful Heart increases our
awareness of God’s purpose.
“We know that all
things work together for good to those who love God, to those who are the
called according to His purpose” (Rom 8:28).
God is good all
the time; all the time God is good. We are assured over and over by the full
weight of Scripture that God’s hand, though often unseen, is working “all this
together according to the counsel of his will”(Eph 1:11).
When we live with
a thankful heart our eyes open so that we may know with calm assurance that God
is working for our good — even in the midst of something that is really bad.
The Bible says,
“In everything give thanks; for this is the will of God in Christ Jesus for
you” (1 Th.5:18). Everything? Yes, everything. This means while we are going
through something — good or bad — we give thanks while we are IN it.
We do not curse
or complain, for that opens us to the destructive power of bitterness. And that
can destroy our souls, and bring great sorrow to many others.
This brings me to
my second point.
#2 — A Thankful Heart keeps us from the
destructive influence of bitterness.
The Bible says,
“Make sure that no one misses out on God’s wonderful grace. Don’t let anyone
become bitter and cause trouble for the rest of you” (Heb.12:15).
Oh, how many
thousands of stories can be told about the destructive power of bitterness in
families, businesses, churches, and teams! One bitter person can unleash a
poison that destroys thousands of lives.
Job said, “I will
complain in the bitterness of my soul” (Job 7:11). That’s what bitterness does:
it complains. Bitterness quenches joy and makes one critical and mean-spirited;
hell-bent on depriving others of blessings. It dominates the mind, disrupts the
conversation, destroys friendships, and spreads discord among others.
When we live with
a thankful heart — even in our darkest, most trying moments – God gives us
perspective and peace.
King David wrote,
“Before I was afflicted I went astray, but now I keep Your word. You are good, and do good; Teach me Your
statutes. It is good for me that I have been afflicted, that I may learn Your
statutes.” He concludes by saying, “I know, O LORD, that Your judgments are
right, and that in faithfulness You have afflicted me.” (see Psalm 119:67, 68
and 75).
Afterwards, he
bursts forth into song, “You have turned for me my mourning into dancing; You
have put off my sackcloth and clothed me with gladness, to the end that my
glory may sing praise to You and not be silent. O LORD my God, I will give
thanks to You forever!” (Psa 30:11-12)
Every experience
in life makes you bitter or better. A thankful heart always takes us along the
path of that which is better.
#3 — A Thankful Heart prevents us from
falling into pride.
While bowing our
heads before God shows reverence, there is also something redemptive about
doing so. It holds us in a place of humility.
Matthew Henry,
the famous Bible scholar was once accosted by thieves and robbed of his
purse. Afterwards, he wrote these words in his diary:
“Let me be
thankful first because I was never robbed before; second, although they took my
purse, they did not take my life; third, because, although they took my all, it
was not much; and fourth, because it was I who was robbed, not I who robbed another.”
This is a worthy
example of choosing wisely. He could have been bitter, and complained to the
Lord about the unfairness of the situation. He could’ve become angry and
carried an offense that would make his suspicious of any travelers he might encounter
on his journey, which would have closed his heart to them lest they assault him
as others had done.
Instead, he
turned to God in humility, and gave thanks. Thus he was saved from the pitfall
of pride and anger. As for the robbers, we can be sure that God’s justice
tracked them down and they paid dearly for what they had done. “Beloved, do not
avenge yourselves, but rather give place to wrath; for it is written,
‘Vengeance is Mine, I will repay,’ says the Lord.” (Rom 12:19)
Thanksgiving and
Humility go hand in hand. God is pleased with both.
#4 — A Thankful Heart permeates our circle
of influence with faith.
Thanksgiving is
the highest expression of faith there is, especially when it is offered during
times of distress and difficulty. Thanksgiving looks beyond momentary
afflictions, convinced that “the sufferings of this present time are not worthy
to be compared with the glory which shall be revealed in us.” (Rom 8:18).
A Thankful heart
is focused upon God; a bitter and ungrateful heart is absorbed with its
problems. Thankfulness lifts our vision and builds our faith. It causes us to
become an influential encouragement to others who are struggling with life’s
difficulties.
Paul wrote, “Do
everything without complaining or arguing. Then you will be blameless and
innocent. You will be God’s children without any faults among people who are
crooked and corrupt. You will shine like stars among them in the world as you
hold firmly to the word of life.” (Php 2:14-16,)
As we are
thankful – even in the midst of great difficulties – God “leads us in triumph
in Christ, and through us diffuses the fragrance of His knowledge in every
place.” (2 Co 2:14)
Are you the kind
of person that brightens up a room by leaving? When others see you coming, do
they turn aside to avoid an encounter with you so as not to be criticized,
corrected or condemned?
Or, are people
drawn to you so as to be near somebody who can help them experience God’s
presence? Do you repel people from Christ, or attract people to Him?
CONCLUSION
In a Peanuts
cartoon, Snoopy is getting dog food for his Thanksgiving Day dinner. He stares
at the bowl and talks to himself.
“How about that?
Everyone is eating turkey today, but just because I’m a dog I get dog food.”
He then trots
away and positions himself on top of his doghouse and concludes, “Of course, it
could have been worse, I could have been born a turkey.”
There is always
something we can be thankful for; find that one thing and start there. Give
thanks to God….and watch how quickly your list will grow; and how dramatically
your life will change!
Father, we thank
You for Your faithfulness to always work things for our good. Forgive us when
we let hurt, anger, and bitterness sour our minds and turn our hearts away from
trusting You.
Renew our vision
so that we may see beyond the circumstances that trouble us. Let us instead
catch a glimpse of the good that You are bringing after we pass through the
test. Give us thankful hearts. In you precious name we pray amen!!